Is losing weight one of your goals for this year? If yes, then we’re in the same boat. I want to shed unwanted fats in some places like my tummy and side-back.
Most couples, soon after getting married, have the tendency to get a bit lax in the looks department. They tend to be more relaxed and no longer care much about their physical appearance than when they’re still “in the market.”
Since you tend to pick up your partner’s eating and exercise habits, which is also a reason for your weight-gain, it’s also wise to get your partner as a weight-loss buddy. It doesn’t only make you both physically healthy but the same goal and shared activities also bond you as a couple.
Here’s some points to get you started:
1. Discuss why losing weight is important to you.
And make sure that you have this goal for yourself. Looking good or being healthy for someone is a short-time fix.
2. Going green is going healthy.
Walk. Take the stairs. Choose to ride your bike instead of driving your car. Make it a habit.
3. No name calling please.
Avoid calling your partner names like “Mr. Jiggly Wiggly.” They’re cute to hear but people can be sensitive at times. Why not try putting kisses and not harmful remarks on your partner’s bodies?
4. It’s a threesome.
You, your partner and food. What’s your relationship with food? Does it benefit and nurture you or weigh you down? Shop together for healthy food. Try cooking and eating new and healthy recipes together.
5. Create your dates around fun and fitness.
Exercise together. Go to the gym together. Take a long, brisk walk or ride bikes together. Dancing does wonders for couples and bodies. Enroll in a dance lesson together.
Plan a hike, a bike ride, jogging date or rock climbing. Find a sport that you want to do together like a one on one basketball with you rather than with his friends this time.
6. Be a role model.
It’s more encouraging when you see someone’s example. Practice eating healthy and getting more exercise. By nature, your partner will follow suit. That said, avoid giving too much pressure if you see your partner not doing his part. It might just give him more urge to resist than be encouraged to keep on. Instead…..
7. Be nice with your words.
Your words can lighten up the negative thoughts in your partner’s heads about the hardwork of reaching your goal. Compliment each other’s efforts no matter how minute his progress is.
